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Rule Makers, Rule Breakers

How Tight and Loose Cultures Wire Our World

In Rule Makers, Rule Breakers, celebrated cultural psychologist Michele Gelfand takes us on an epic journey through human cultures, offering a startling new view of the world and ourselves. With a mix of brilliantly conceived studies and surprising on-the-ground discoveries, she shows that much of the diversity in the way we think and act derives from a key difference—how tightly or loosely we adhere to social norms.

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Praise for Rule Makers, Rule Breakers 

“Groundbreaking…Anyone interested in our cultural divides will find tremendous insight here.”

—Steven Pinker, Johnstone Professor of Psychology, Harvard University, and author of Enlightenment Now

“A brilliant and timely book….Michele Gelfand has exposed a universal fault line running beneath nations, states, organizations, and even families. Cultures that face threat and uncertainty seek order and precision. Cultures with firmer footings revel in ambiguity and risk taking. This idea, at once so simple and so powerful, will forever change how you see the world.”

—Daniel H. Pink, bestselling author of When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing and Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us

“Endlessly impressive…In figuring out what causes various tribes and factions to clash and sometime come to blows—whether at the U.N. or in a stadium’s upper deck—Gelfand has left no cultural stone unturned. To read this book is to see both yourself and your neighbor for the first time—guided by rules of which you’ve both been unaware.”

—Susan Cain, bestselling author of Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking

“Completely fascinating….[Gelfand] reveals how political divides, happiness and suicide rates, and the coexistence of crime and creativity can all be traced to a fundamental but neglected dimension of social norms. You’ll never look at a workplace, a country, or a family the same way again.”

—Adam Grant, bestselling author of Originals, Give and Take, and Option B with Sheryl Sandberg

 

“A delightful, insightful, and fascinating look at the remarkable diversity of human customs— where they come from and how they shape our lives.”

—Daniel Gilbert, bestselling author of Stumbling on Happiness

 

“Offers a powerful new way of seeing the world. Gelfand's deceptively simple thesis becomes increasingly compelling as her research unfolds across politics, class, and organizational behavior. Best of all, she provides a new toolkit for change."

—Anne Marie Slaughter, President and CEO of New America, former director of Policy Planning for the State Department, and author of Unfinished Business: Women Men Work Family

"Remarkable. Not just an enlightening book but a game-changing one. By uncovering the inner workings of tight and loose cultures, Rule Makers, Rule Breakers suddenly makes sense of the puzzling behavior we see all around us—in colleagues, family, and even ourselves."

—Carol Dweck, bestselling author of Mindset: The New Psychology of Success

 

“Fascinating and illuminating…Rule Makers, Rule Breakers sheds light on everything from why we embrace new ideas to how culture makes us who we are. We all build order into our days, but as Gelfand shows, some of us like hewing to a line, and others enjoy crossing it.”

—Jonah Berger, bestselling author of Contagious and Invisible Influence

 

Excerpt

Excerpt from Rule Makers, Rule Breakers 

               It’s 11:00 pm in Berlin. Not a single car is in sight, yet a pedestrian waits patiently at the crosswalk until the light turns green. Meanwhile, 4,000 miles away in Boston, at rush hour, commuters flout the “Do Not Cross” sign as they dart in front of cabs. To the south, where it’s 8:00 pm in Sao Paulo, locals are frolicking in string bikinis in public parks. Up in Silicon Velley, it’s mid-afternoon and T-shirted employees at Google are playing a game of ping pong. And in Geneva, Switzerland, at the Swiss bank UBS, which for years mandated a 44-page dress code, executives burning the midnight oil have barely loosened their ties.

               We may tease Germans for being excessively orderly or Brazilians for showing too much skin, but we rarely consider how these differences came about. Far beyond dress codes and pedestrian patterns, people’s social differences run deep and broad—from politics to parenting, management to worship, and vocations to vacations. In the past several thousand years humanity has evolved to the point where there now exists 195 countries, and more than 7,000 languages and many thousands of religions. Even within a single nation, such as the United States, there are countless differences in fashion, dialect, morals, and political orientation—sometimes among those who live in close proximity. The diversity of human behavior is astonishing, especially since 96% of the human genome is identical to that of chimpanzees whose lifestyles, unlike humans, are far more similar across communities.

               We rightly celebrate diversity and condemn division, yet we’re shockingly ignorant of what underlies both of these things: culture. Culture is a stubborn mystery of our experience and one of the last uncharted frontiers. We’ve used our big brains to accomplish unbelievable technical feats. We’ve discovered the laws of gravity, split the atom, wired the Earth, eradicated fatal diseases, mapped the human genome, invented the iPhone, and even trained dogs to ride skateboards. But somehow, despite all of our technical prowess, we’ve made surprisingly little progress in understanding something equally as important: our own cultural differences. 

               Why are we so divided, despite the fact that we’re more technologically connected than ever? Culture is at the heart of our divisions, and we need to know more about it. For years, policy experts and lay people alike have struggled to find a deep underlying factor to explain our sprawling, complex cultural traits and distinctions. Many times we focus on superficial characteristics that are the "symptoms of culture." We try to explain our cultural divides in terms of geography, thinking that people behave the way they do because they live in blue states or red states, in rural or urban areas, in Western or Eastern nations, in the developing or developed world. We wonder if culture can be explained by differences in religion or our different “civilizations.” These distinctions have typically left us with more questions than answers because they miss the deeper basis of our differences—they don’t get at the underlying primal template of culture.

               A more compelling answer has been hiding in plain sight. Just as simple principles can explain a whole lot in fields such as physics, biology, and mathematics, many cultural differences and divides can be explained through a simple shift in perspective.

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October 4, 2018

Michele Gelfand in Conversation with Thomas Friedman

BSOS University of Maryland

Author and Distinguished University Professor Michele Gelfand engages in conversation with bestselling author and journalist Thomas Freidman about her new book, "Rule Makers, Rule Breakers: How Tight and Loose Cultures Wire Our World"

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October 2, 2018

One Reason Mergers Fail: The Two Cultures Aren’t Compatible

Harvard Business Review

Amazon’s 2017 acquisition of Whole Foods was met with a lot of fanfare. In the words of Whole Foods CEO John Mackey, the partnership was “love at first sight.” A year later, such optimism seems hard to find at Whole Foods.

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October 1, 2018

Listen to Dr. Gelfand on #RisersRadio

#RisersRadio

#RisersRadio: Your Voice Is Being Heard

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September 27, 2018

Listen to Dr. Gelfand on Something You Should Know

Something You Should Know

Michele joins Mike Carruthers to to explain the fascinating reasons why different cultures adopt tight or loose controls and how those rules impact the lives of people they affect.

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September 27, 2018

Listen to Dr. Gelfand on Overnight America

Overnight America

University of Maryland Psychology Professor Michele Gelfand joins host Ryan Wrecker to discuss the research on her new book “Rule Makers, Rule Breakers.”

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September 26, 2018

Listen to Dr. Gelfand on The Halli Casser-Jayne Show

The Halli Casser-Jayne Show

In an era that is more divided than ever, RULE MAKERS, RULE BREAKERS offers a startling new lens through which we can see exactly why others stake out the positions they do, and with that new perspective, reap—for the first time—the benefits other cultures have to offer.

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September 22, 2018

Listen to Dr. Gelfand on Curious Minds

Curious Minds

When we try to explain cultural differences, we often turn to descriptions of east versus west, rich versus poor or, in U.S. politics, red versus blue. But Michele Gelfand, author of the book Rule Makers, Rule Breakers: How Tight and Loose Cultures Wire Our World, argues that we’re overlooking the most comprehensive explanation of all – how tightly or loosely we adhere to social norms.

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September 21, 2018

Listen to Dr. Gelfand on The Gist

Slate - The Gist

We’re used to thinking of nations as liberal or conservative. Cultural psychologist Michele Gelfand has a new axis to consider.

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September 20, 2018

Morning Joe: How tightness and looseness help shape culture

MSNBC

Author and professor Michele Gelfand joins Morning Joe to discuss her new book 'Rule Makers, Rule Breakers: How Tight and Loose Cultures Wire Our World.'

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September 20, 2018

Morning Joe: Applying looseness and tightness to politics

MSNBC

Author and professor Michele Gelfand continues the discussion on her new book 'Rule Makers, Rule Breakers: How Tight and Loose Cultures Wire Our World.'

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